Sondra, my thoughts are with you. On November 30, 2012, my oldest pup, Dante,was struck and killed by a car. In a bizarre coincidence, my youngest pup the very next day was struck and critically injured – thankfully, Mac will make it.
As I write this, Dante’s ashes are on my desk. I miss him terribly; he was such a sweet dog. I would like to think the pain in my heart is a good indication that we loved each very much.
Rumsfeld loves you, too. Take advantage of this time to keep him comfortable and just love your dog. And know this – God loves His creation and will lift up Rumsfeld when the time comes.
Comment by The Digital Hairshirt — December 13, 2012 @ 6:18 pm
You can be sad but you have to be strong. We’ve all been through what you’re going through with our children and pets and have empathy. But we walked in our own moccasins and you’re walking in yours. You said it your self he doesn’t have any idea what’s in store for him that’s a blessing and now you know. That’s the difference between animals and humans and your heart is breaking.
Comment by geezerette — December 13, 2012 @ 6:41 pm
So very sorry to hear this.
Tears and prayers, here.
My phone number is in the book.
Off tomorrow. Call if you need to talk.
Comment by JoeBandMember — December 13, 2012 @ 6:47 pm
Will be praying.
Comment by SteveHGraham — December 13, 2012 @ 6:54 pm
Lost a dog before, know what it feels like. It was cancer in my pup’s case too. My sincere sympathies…I know how it hurts.
Comment by SSG Christopher Whitaker — December 13, 2012 @ 6:58 pm
Oh no. I’m so sorry for you and JR. It there is anything I can do for you, just call or text me.
I trapped a feral kitten from the paper mill at which I am
employed. Including me, 4 employees were feeding the
little bastard. He was crapping all over the maintenance
shop like a goose with diarrhea.
I dropped him off at an animal hospital and had him treated
for intestinal parasites and took him home. I do not even
like cats, but I just could not see which took him first; the
parasites, or a forklift.
He is a pain in the ass! He is anti-social, and is as neurotic
as Chloe O’Brian from the series 24.
He may hate other people, but he loves me. I never really
thought about what would happen if he gets sick again.
I am sorry to hear about your pooch. I hope I never have
to face the problem you now have.
Comment by Leonard Jones — December 13, 2012 @ 7:23 pm
I am so, so sorry to hear that.
I’m not even going to pretend that I know what you’re going through,
God sends us our critters to watch over us but eventually they have to go Home.
Comment by Mumblix Grumph — December 13, 2012 @ 7:28 pm
Your sorrow is shared. You’re in my prayers. God bless you all.
Comment by Thomas M. — December 13, 2012 @ 7:36 pm
Sad to hear this news. :(
Comment by Caged Insanity — December 13, 2012 @ 7:42 pm
Their love is beyond understanding. I am thinking good thoughts for you and your pal.
Comment by staghounds — December 13, 2012 @ 7:45 pm
I never met the little guy, but I’m going to miss him. You poor babies. I’m so sorry.
Thanks for sharing, Sondra.
Comment by dick, not quite dead white guy — December 13, 2012 @ 7:52 pm
It seems like dogs are always taken from us too soon. They’re so much members of our families that we tend to think of them as little hairy people.
I am so sorry, Sondra. You know my email if there’s anything at all I can do.
Comment by apotheosis — December 13, 2012 @ 7:57 pm
Dogs don’t understand death.
They do, however, understand pain.
And for that reason, how thankful I am that you are there to make sure that doesn’t happen.
He is blessed to have you, and you him.
May you have peace with your grief in knowing that.
I understand what you’re going through. A while back, I lost all three cats within 18 months. Two were over 18 years old, so they had been a part of our lives for a long time.
Do what you can with him for the time remaining. Spoil him rotten!
Comment by Fat Baxter — December 13, 2012 @ 8:47 pm
so, so sorry.
I know what you mean about cramming every minute in…I had my Springer of 12 years in the back of the jeep, got home and one look told me she was in trouble. I raced to the vet and 45 minutes later she was gone. Oh for just one more day.
I’m heartbroken, Missy.
There’s not much any of us can do to help at a time like this except wish you and JR a little comfort. You do what you have to. We’ll be here when you’re ready to pick up the pitchfork again.
(And to answer your question, no, the drink didn’t really help; but the fireplace did. The fireplace always does.)
Comment by DougM (Well, thaaat sucked!) — December 13, 2012 @ 9:05 pm
My lady and I have lost two beloveds in the last few years. They are so much a part of our family. You’ve been in our thoughts for the last few weeks, and we’ll keep you there.
Comment by LostLiberty — December 13, 2012 @ 9:19 pm
Sondra, I am so very, very sorry.
I can’t post any more, or a least not for a very long while, but I do occasionally visit for a few minutes to see how everyone is doing. So that’s how I know.
Wish it weren’t so.
It’s good to be strong. And also cry.
For what it’s worth, he’ll be with you forever. All mine are here with me always.
Comment by Ironic in Denver — December 13, 2012 @ 9:58 pm
Oh Sondra. It is never a easy thing for any of us who love a cherish our little creations from God. It is so tough. I was listening to Glenn talk about his guard dog who is very old and he was talking in the same way. I was balling way back from when he first started. My Baby girl was that to me and now I have a Kit-cat since the night of Wilma here and she has h b/p and hyperthyroid and she has been hanging in with her. From the time I first wake giving her her meds til the evening. And I’ve been living it like its only a matter of time and I’ve had many a tearful moment. I’m sending my hugs for the 3 of you and prayers of strength.
The little furry-faced people don’t ask for much, but they sure take a lot when they go.
I’m not really good at this. Good thoughts and cyber-hugs your way.
Comment by rickn8or — December 13, 2012 @ 10:17 pm
Damn. I’m so sorry Sondra.
Comment by Chris in NC — December 13, 2012 @ 10:38 pm
The Corgi posts and comments over the years have gotten the breed growing on me. I am sorry to hear that your Rumsfeld is sick and hoping for a miracle and that you will stay strong. Adding a few prayers for you and the Corgs.
Comment by accipiter NW — December 13, 2012 @ 10:40 pm
From one dog person to another: No words can convey it, but wishing you strength in your sadness.
So, so sorry…
Make your memories and fun while you can.
Comment by rustbucket — December 14, 2012 @ 6:34 am
I went through this over five years ago with my Scoobie. I had had her for almost 15 years and, knowing that her end was soon coming, I’d look at her and cry. After she was gone, I cried every day for a month. I joke that I had to adopt two dogs, Pepper and Kayla, to take her place. It’s hard – very hard. We get so attached to our pets – our friends – and yet they’re only with us for such a short while. When their end approaches, you do everything that you can to keep them for just a little while longer, but the end always comes and that hurts. I’m truly, truly sorry.
Comment by Thunderbottom — December 14, 2012 @ 7:36 am
Deb and I lost Nate after 12 years of great memories. Since that grand Collie ambassador left us, we have chosen to take care of aging rescue dogs. Doesn’t matter how long they are with us, the loss is always heart/gut wrenching.
We both are praying for and with you and JR….and for Rumsfeld. May God bless and hold you all close through this.
I lost my golden retriever Jordan lose the use of her legs and finally her other functions and we had to put her down. That was 2 years ago and I still miss her. I carried her into the vet and held her while we did what had to be done. It turns out it’s very hard to write a check when you can’t hold a pen and can’t see your checkbook. Please accept my sincere sympathies. This is tough.
We lost our beloved rat terrier “Sassy” this summer and are still getting over not having her in our lives. Little dogs pack so much joy in a tiny package, don’t they. Sending a big virtual hug your way.
I’m so very sorry. I’ve had pets all my life and it never gets any easier when they get old or sick. We just had to put our kitty down this past summer after 18 good years for her. It was cancer that took her life. I hate cancer with a vengeance. At a certain point there was nothing more we could do but to keep her as comfortable as possible. We arranged to have a veterinarian come to our home to put our baby down. I’m so grateful we had that service where Pepper was in the comfort of her own home, unafraid…and I suspect she knew it was her time, but glad to be home with us by her side. The love we have for a sick child or our pet, is no different. It’s an unconditional love and we would do anything for them if we could just make it better. I have you in my thoughts and prayers Sondra.
My Schipperke Had the courtesy to just go outside, lie down, and die. Not sick or anything, just old.
Comment by Alan outback bacon czar — December 14, 2012 @ 1:16 pm
I have no words that will help. I can say this, he could not have gotten two better guardians than he did. As someone that has been owned by a bunch of good dogs it always seems they go away way too quick. Prayers for you all.
Comment by blindshooter — December 14, 2012 @ 1:27 pm
I’m very sorry for you and JR. The pain is as much as any family member so spoil each other and the mischievous one till it is time. The pain of the loss is temporary but the memories of the good times you get to keep! I’ll be praying for you.
Best friends all, some large, some small. I held them, played with them and loved each and every one.
Blacky – mixed mutt
Heidi – Cocker
Pupuli – Cockapoo (a God sent pal for 3 kids for 14 years)
Spike – Chocolate Lab
Spike 2 – Black Lab
Champain – Silver Toy Poodle
Brandy – Spitz
Gimlet – Keeshond
Skoshi – Son of Gimlet
Champain 2 – Blue eyed Husky
Somewhere in the middle of all this, there were two cats I never meant to keep. One named Punkin and one who remained “Cat” for over 10 years.
They are part of our personal fabric and everyone caused tears when it’s time came.
My heartfelt sympathy for you and fondest hopes for more of God’s creatures in your life.
I cannot believe what a beautiful group of people I call my friends. You all are the UP SIDE of loving so much………..
Comment by SondraK, Queen of my domain — December 14, 2012 @ 9:11 pm
Sondra, darlin’, you know how much I love you and grieve with you over this sad news about Rummy…
Yet for now, he is still at your side and YOU are at his.
Love him. Hug him and give him and the rest of the pack treats.
Do what you know is right…. often the MOST difficult thing to do.
You and JR are the bestest furbaby parents!
You know my number if you feel like talking….
~smooches for Rummy~ and hugs to the bunch of you from Texas
damn… I have teaars in my eyes…
Comment by Melissa In Texas — December 15, 2012 @ 1:02 am
I am sorry to read about Rumsfeld’s bad state. The sadness will ebb, and the good memories will linger. …and you have a good support group.
Comment by Hopefulone — December 15, 2012 @ 5:03 am
Sondra – First comes the grief, then the relief of knowing that your friend is no longer suffering. It is the burden of being a good human to care for them in good times and bad. I wish there was something that could ease this pain, but only time does that. Love and prayers to Rummy, you, JR, and Smurfy.
My heart is heavy with the pain you are living through. The joy our pets give us is beyond words, as is the pain we feel when we must say goodbye.I share in your sadness and you all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Comment by Christine M — December 15, 2012 @ 10:45 am
Headmissy, I’ve been away for a few days and so am late in sending a long-distance hug. No question that some of my best friends and biggest losses have been those members of my family who are so much more than just “pets.”
I know that this is a very hard time, but am glad that you have at least some opportunity to share the love a bit longer. That’s no small thing.